when u got married, each and everyone around you expect that u gonna start cooking.
kihkihkih!
can u imagine me cooking? well..i can cook..just that i dont really good in cooking. i recently learn how to cook the rice and i perfectly made it! i can only cook simple simple dish like black pepper beef..fried veges..fried fish..chicken..all those sambal sambal dish..okey laaaa..but surely cant cook for others.
but i cant cook curries..all those gulai..hahahah!
thats the most nervous time! even more than the one i got during my scholarship interview!
and yep, ibu came last week; for a wedding and my lil bro finale night
me and Aflah went to the airport to pick her up who flew from KK for work. then we went back straight home. haha! her first impression? i think, she think that i got nice place..hahahah! she didnt say much, so that means that it is okay..hihiks! yay!
a day before & the day
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i was cleaning up sooooooo hard! sweeping, mopping! spraying the Febreeze here and there..then there and here some more..
thanks to the inventor! i love you for that! the smelly smelly really go away u know..
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Sunday, 25 October 2015
we went out around 930 am straight to Shah Alam for brekkie. Ibu seriously ate a lot! first, she got the Nasi Kerabu, then Laksam, lastly..Nasi Lemak..
also same goes to Aflah!
then we went to look for money changer..to change for my bro..
then,
we went to a wedding..in Klang..
maaaaaakan lagi!
some of Ibu's friends could not attend my wedding, so they congratulate me as well. malu pulak..we were there for other's wedding and people congratulate me as well..kuat lak tuh ckp..sume pun pandang (-.-) segan ceqqqq..
then later after Maghrib, we went to Cheras for my lil bro finale night. the last night we gonna see him because he is taking off on the next day.
sebak tgk my not-so-lil-bro..i am superbly proud of him. he was dancing all night. he seems to have a great time. im happy for him too :)
when its time to say goodbye, again..i cried..gonna miss my lil bro..
tp xpe la..in sha Allah, everything gonna be fine..
sbb i start from zero..xpandai masak..melipat baju..mengemas umah..hari yg baru pindah masuk rumah baru, Ya ampunnnnn..gile penatnye! Mr.Saranghae g keje..tggl la sang isteri kt rumah..mengemas..sapu mop lantai bagai..lipat baju..
dlu basuh baju, 10 helai tu da byk dh tuh..skrg ni, double! basuh okay lg la sbb ade machine yg tlg..LIPAT? haaaaaa thats the tough part! byk lak tuh! menggile la aku melipat..tu pun smpi skrg xhbs hbs lg melipat. tau la knp melipat tu SUSAH sgt sgt sgt?!
dlu bgn kul 10..then trus kuar g kje kul 11pg..skrg ni, bgn kul 6, kejut laki g keje..crikan sluar kje die..bancuh air utk die..then tnye nk breakfast ke, nk bwak bekal ke..so far, all he's asking was sandwich..xkesah la tuna ke..sardin ke..telur ke..then, cek beg die make sure sume ade..kad kje la, beg vape die la..wallet..pg bute tu jugak la bru nk crikan stokin die 😔 then send him off kt pintu..
tutup je pintu, trus lompat atas katil balik..golek kiri golek kanan, mne bleh tdo dh..then mule la bukak lappy review thesis..buat notes sket..check email..sambil sambil tu buat laundry..then kalau rajin buat breakfast..
ade je hari yg lps je Mr.Saranghae g kje, trus tdo balik..then xsedar Mr.Saranghae whatsapp ckp da smpi tmpt kje 🙈 hahaha! bgn bgn da kul 12..
These things are still new to me. Tak pernah terfikir this things will come too fast..
Ready ke..tak ready ke..dah kawen..so its time to change..klu kawen lmbt lg pun, more time to improve ourselves right?
a day after jd bini org ni, still kt umah TokMek, where Ibu is still there as well as TokMek and aunties and Nani..so xde la rse that responsibility yet..bgn pg pun Ibu yg kejut, then breakfast da ade atas meje..air pun da bancuh..tinggal hidangkan je..
4th day after, we decided to go back. but kne la pitstop kt Kerteh dlu..definitely new experience..dlu dtg as girlfriend..now dtg as menantu..jumpe pulak sis in law, bro in law..nephews..nieces..
ade anak buah sorg ni, Yaya for short..really really loves to smile at me..pandang je sengeh..haha! so cute! i though i will be tough for them to accept me as a new family member, but then everything was fine. i got along well.
i didnt do much. honestly i didnt do anything. everything was done by my mother in law. she's the oe who went out to get me drinks, then the next morning, she got us breakfast..hihihi! i guess thats how it is.
dh la bgn pun kul 8 that morning. hmm..Ibu mmg byk kali pesan, pandai pandai bawak diri kt tempat org. jgn perangai tak snonoh..hahaha!
sampai je rumah, trus kemas brg. we brought back all of the presents we got during our wedding day. seriously byk and most of them are glass bowls and a glass set. so we put them nicely in the cupboard in the kitchen. penuh weyh!
sambil sambil tu buat laundry..sapu rumah..mop sket..penat sgt sgt sgt! menggile penat nye! then Mr.Saranghae have to work double shift for 2 days..so that left me cleaning and tidying up the house alone..i wont ask for bigger house. it was tiring enough for me!
then bile da duduk berdua ni baru la get that new environment..nk kne mengemas..nk kne masak..nk kne buat laundry..nk kne lipat baju..TOTALLY TIRING! nasib la blom keje btl btl lg..and still studying..so ade la mse sket utk buat sume tu..
tp bile dah bgtau Ibu, then Ibu pulak bgtau adik bradik die and ask for opinions, maka ter-set lah tarikh sarung cincin, tarikh nikah, and tarikh sanding..
perasaan?
hmmm..rase rase nye..?
mesti la terkejut. sume org kalau boleh mmg nk kawen kan? tp bile sume berlalu sepantas kilat, sy trime je la dgn hati terbuka. nk buat bende baik kan? aidilfitri hri tu trus set tarikh sarung cincin 08.08.15..then trus set date utk nikah 10.10.15
dlm kepale ni time tu, "sempat ke nk settle sume before 10.10 ni?" yela, kursus tak attend lg..HIV pun xbuat lg. bile google, org ckp n kne buat appointment la..ini laaa..itu la..da settle kursus and HIV test, bab borang pulokkkkk -.-
Alhamdulillah, part perempuan xpyah byk fikir sbb sume Pok Su tlg settle kan. Tang lelaki je la yg leceh sket..nk borang akuan bujang from company, then nk kne isi pulak borang akuan permastautin, then baru lah boleh isi borang kebenaran nk nikah..lepas settle borang2 tu sume, bwak g Pejabat Agama Islam Selangor, xsmpi 15 minit SETTLED! can u believe that? tgk review org lain yg nk kawen, kne buat 3bln before tarikh nikah la..ini laaa..itu laaaa..
Alhamdulillah..Allah permudahkan segala urusan kebenaran nikah bg pihak lelaki..settle lelaki, pos pulak sume tu ke Kelantan, sbb nk nikah kt Kelantan (kampung Ibu kt Kelantan). 2 3 days after that, Pok Su whatsapp ckp borang da settle, and DA BOLEH KAWEN!
Syukur sekali lagi..Allah permudahkan segalanya..
makanya..
bernikah la kami pada 10.10.15
sekali lafaz je
bile sah je..org blakang da ketawa..sbb laju sgt! nmpk sgt la Mr.Saranghae tak tdo mlm nk mengingat lafaz tuh..honestly, bile saksi kate sah je, hati ni xde la sebak..slalu tgk video org nikah, yg pempuan mesti sebak..hihik!
TAPI..
yg sebaknye..time Abah berjabat tangan dgn Mr.Saranghae..mcm pesan pesan la..mase tu, bercucuran air mate jatuh weyyyy..! hati ni kalau berkenaan Abah, mmg cpt sket tersentuh..selepas ape yg terjadi kan, mmg prasaam ni bercampur baur..dah la lepas nikah Abah trus balik..so smpi di situ je la..
lepas settle sume hal kt Kelantan, baru la balik Kerteh, tdo smlm kt sane..then singgah Kuantan on our way back to KL. sampai je Kerteh, tertanjat sket bile tbe tbe je dpt title "Mak Ngah". hahahha! then ikot Mak Mertua g akad nikah sepupu Mr.Saranghae. mule mule mcm mls nk g..then, fikir fikir balik, boleh la klu Mak Mr.Saranghae nk kenalkan menantu baru ni kt keluarga sane kan..kehkehkehkeh! Okay laaaa..i had fun seeing new people..malu malu pun ade gak.. *wink wink wink*
i think thats for now
im surely will update more soon
but the thing is that, Aflah havent send in his borang kebenaran nikah yet. he suppose to sent it this Thursday..unfortunately, he have to go out of town till this Friday..
*sigh*
based on other's experience about this, i wont take that long to get that marry approval, in sya Allah..
i can say that everything is almost settled for my wedding
thanks to my whole family team behind me; ibu and ciksue
mcm tak percaya je nk kawen dh in less than 2months
hahaha
pg pg bgn, boleh plak termenung..sambil fikir "betul ke aku dah nk kawen ni?"
tgk whatsapp group nk kawen ni ckp pasal borang nikah la ape la..hahahha!
mse kecik kecik angan angan nk mcm mcm
tp
bile la besar ni, xde dh sume tu
as i grew up, i always disagree with almost every decision Ibu made for me. ade je bende nk protes..ade je bende xpuas hati..I always thought that she loves my brother more than she loves me..
but, she was always there when i needed her. i misjudge her. i always thought that she will never agree with me. but the truth is that, she is a considerate person. Ibu adalah seseorang yg boleh dibawa berbincang. Now i know that, if Ibu tak bising2 dlu, aku takkan jadi siapa aku hari ini. i messed up during my SPM, but she believed in me. Still send me off to college..sampai lah hari ni..i almost finish my master. Sorg sorg je Ibu tanggung both me and my brother. Ape kami nak, kalau bende tu perlu, mesti ibu belikan. Even handphone yg xbrape perlu ni pun, ibu yg upgrade kan.
Tak tau la ape akan jd kalau Ibu xde. I dont know where i am now if i dont listen to her. I promise myself that i will try to be a good daughter as possible. Even when im married, i will always be ur daughter <3 p="">
Amir,
Ya ampunnnnn la hai adik sekor ni! dari kecik asyikkkkkkkkkkk la bergaduh! shari kalau xgaduh, xsah! ade je bende yg xpuas hati. Amir ni dr kecik dlu, slalu dpt ape yg die nak. Unfair! haha! and rase xfair when im the one yg kne sapu sampah, kemas, mop sume..die xpyah..tp bile da besar ni, die pun buat jugak sume tuh! Amir ni sgt pandai masak! dpt that gift from Ibu kot. Ibu pandai masak. Skrg ni Amir buat degree kt MMU Cyber. so dekat je la kami ni. He is sooooo active in SRM la..ini la..itu laaa..this Oct, die nk g berlayar..naik cruise..program under Kementerian Belia & Sukan..dah byk achievements he got. I am superbly proud of him!
skrg ni, ade masalah..cari die. nk nangis pun cari die. die la yg pujuk..die la yg bg nasihat..he's always there for me..bile xde duit pun pinjam kt die..hahaha!
byk la sbb..why they are superbly important to me..
im gonna share my journey in getting this test done
if ure happen to get married, first thing that u have to do is to go for the Kursus Pra Perkahwinan to get the cert.
Then,
it is COMPULSORY for you to undergo blood test!
no test, no marry
hahaha!
30.07.15
Me and Aflah chose to get this test done at Klinik Kesihatan Seksyen 7, Shah Alam
We got there at 715am. then we queued for numbers. We got 1 and 2.
fyi, they will only cater for 30 person each day! So hurry up!
after u got ur number, u have to wait at level 1 for the HIV counter to be open. take the form, then go back downstairs, to take the number for registration!
Fill Up The Forms While Waiting for your Registration Number to be Called!
since thats my first time, so i thought i have to fill them up, then hand them over to the HIV counter. i was wrong. u only go up to level 1 for the forms. everything will be done downstairs.
when they called ur num, go to the registration counter, then pay RM1. then, put all the forms into a basket in front of room no 13.
i got my number at 7.47am..and i only got called for the blood test around 10am.
i hate needles!
urgh! that was painful!
but alhamdulillah..
i survived!
then, you will have to wait for the HIV result at 1pm..meanwhile, you have to hand ur blood to kaunter makmal. they will screen ur blood for thalassemia. and Alhamdulillah, im free from Thalassemia!
we went out for lunch, then come back again for the HIV result at 1pm.
and Alhamdulillah..
we both free from HIV!
dah boleh kawen!
Aflah had a bad experience while extracting his blood.
hihi!
sian die. emosi terganggu pulak hari tu.
oh yea..
bukan perempuan je yg kene amek darah byk byk tuh..lelaki pun kene okeh!
Makin nk kawen ni, makain byk dugaan dtg..especially dr segi kewangan..
Time ni la krete nk rosak..time ni la ade bende nk kne ganti..
*sigh*
Yg lg hebat,
Ade la kawan2 ni, ajak la utk dtg ke majlis nnt. Tau ape dorg mintak? Duit minyak dgn accommodation..hamboihhhh bukan main lg..stakat accommodation tu boleh la nk kasi..minyak? Haihhhh..
Sabar je la..
Dorg ni xtau ke nk kawen ni gune byk duit? Then kalau ade lebih pun, nk gune utk start new life..
My Hari Raya turned to be My Engagement & Wedding Days
excited?
kindaaaa..
been waiting for this for so long
but the things is that, everyone keep on asking whether or not the plan is on..where will be held..when exactly is the date..what color is the theme..what this what that..
i didnt expect too much questions from my families
so the situation now is,
IM GOING TO GET ENGAGE NEXT WEEK!
then,
IM GOING TO GET MARRIED IN THE NEXT TWO MONTHS!
can u feel it?
i got to rush here and there
do this and that
like seriously?
its too damn fast!
at this very moment, i still cant find the ring yet!
yep, im serious!
no ring, no engage!
Dear Allah,
please help me..
to get thru everything in front of me in order for me to get all these done.
Im writing as im waiting for my flight to Penang.
Hari Raya is around the corner uoolssss!
This year, i was tested with few bad incidents; Aflah's car broke it's clutch pump. It took 2 days to fix it *sigh* so then i know how difficult is it to not having car to drives around. And..it costs rm750 to fix it *sigh* well, thats after i wink wink my small eyes to the foreman. Hahahaa!
Well, there were also good things happened; i got myBrain scholarship for my master program. Alhamdulillah..
Then i got to fix Aflah's hp's lcd with only rm180! Lowest price ever! So now he's back with his phone.
