Post Delivery for Me (from my own experience)

Hello readers,

ive been reading about post delivery lately. how people share their experience after the deliveries and all.. and they seems fine and okay with everything..and i assume that everything was all sweet-cotton-candy-liked experience..

well, i hope it all true.

because,

for me..urmmm..hahaks! not rainbow and butterflies kinda experience..

they said, once the baby is out, u wont feel any pain. hmmm for a couple of hours after delivery, yup i feel good..

then, the drug went off..hahaks! its time to face the reality! the first thing that hurts is ur vi-jay-jay! yup! the stitches! u cant walk properly, sit properly. the a few days ur boobs will start hurts. too much milk productions. then ur back hurts. then ur nipple cracked. if ure lucky u wont get this. in my case, i got it. both of my nipple cracked. it is super painful! u gotta deal with it each and every 'milking' time.

up til now,

my boobs sore sometimes..and since my baby got her teeth now, my nipple has been chewed by her. yeah, true story! sometimes my back hurts.

so for me, when people told me that once the baby is out everything is fine, its not true :(

or,

mayb its just me.

if ure all rainbow kind of feeling, good for you. and im happy for you!

but, whatever feels im feeling right now, im thankful that i got my baby with me.

till then, take care guys :)

with lots of love,

Lya

#lyaworkinglife

Hi Readers,

i have one question for you;

have u ever feel that ure being underpaid?

when ur friends were talking about their salaries, and suddenly u realises that they are well paid more than u do. they have the same qualifications as you do.

well, im feeling it right now. like seriously? why am i being paid ONLY that much? my salary got cut off whenever i took a day off. for emergency; Ayra got sick. when the salary is in, i checked, urgh! so frustrating and sad..yerp, im sad by looking at my bank account. 

whether or not i have husband or not, i still have to be paid suitably right? i think its time for me to talk to my boss about it. the costs of living are rapidly increasing day by day, but my salary are not.

yerp, pity me.

may Allah ease my journey in talking to my boss about it.

just a piece of my mind

xoxo

Lya

2 Years & 2 Months

Yup! We made it to 2 years and 2 months being married! hahaks!

honestly, getting married is not as hard as being married. the person u know isnt the person u think u know once u got married. when ure living under the same roof, sleeping together, then u will see the true colours of ur partner.

then, the most tragic thing is that, u will hate almost half of ur partner's habits. LIKE SERIOUSLY! 

then, that is when u realise that u have to cope with the changes no matter what. learn to accept ur partner as he is. there are some things that u may change, and there are things that u cant change. so live with it. learn how to cope with it. and remember, u too have things/habits that ur partner dislike. but he learnt how to accaept it. and he close one eye to ur habits because he is madly in love with you.

so either way, learn how to accept each other just the way they are. change for the better. u two must be willing to change for the better. you want to live together for a long time right? hahahah! find ways to live together.

and keep loving each other.

xoxo

Lya the Wife

#LyaMommyLife

Hello Dear Readers,

Baby Ayra will turn 8 months in a few more days, and guess what? I SURVIVED 8 MONTHS BEING MOTHER! And more important is that, BABY AYRA IS STILL ALIVE! hahahahha!

So far, what i discover is: MOTHER'S INSTINCT. 

theres one day that i feel weird that Ayra was super clingy with me, but no temperature. so i brought him to the nearest clinic. and guess what, she is developing fever. but thats sue to her growing tooth. can u believe that at the age of 7 months she already have 2 tooth?! hahahhahaha! some said it was early, and some said its normal. yeah, whateverrrr..

as early as 5months, Ayra's Paeds has been asking me to start introducing solid food to her. as starter, i made lots of puree; apples, carrots, avocados and pears. Alhamdulillah, she responded well to the food. and along the journey, i learn few things;

1. start with avocado. cuz it taste almost like milk. so the baby wont be surprise with the taste.
2. follow the 3days rule. some said 4 days, some said 3days. but my doc said 3days. so 3days it is for us. when shes ok with it, i started to mix 2 to 3 ingredients. such as cauliflower and broccoli.
3. get the proper utensils for the little ones. yup, i bought lots. hahahha! as starter, u may buy Ikea's. kids will love the colors. i learn that spoons calms my baby down when me and hubs are eating. so do consider bringing plastic spoons for ur lil one. but make sure u always aware while ur baby is playing with the spoon.



i think thats is the starter of my fooding journey with my baby.
will share more things soon :)

xoxo
Mommy Lya