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Tuesday, February 21, 2017

Hand-in-Hand

something like work together *thats my definition on the topic*

im still new in this marriage life, and hav lots more to learn.
i think,
the most important thing in marriage is to work hand-in-hand together. im not a "women should stay at home, be in the kitchen" believer. maybe that works during those days. but not today. 
today, women are capable of doing what men can do. well of course la there are things that women cant do.

so the point is,
husbands should be in the kitchen too! they should be able to do the laundry too!
hahaha!
husbands wont be called 'pussy' if they do those cleaning laaaa..well, come on! im kinda sick and tired of hearing "kau perempuan, kau la buat" or even "thats not a men's job..the women should do it". NO! i think you should do that too!

HELLO!
we, the women did our parts too in providing for the family! so i dont agree with those statement! this is 2017 maynnn! men and women should work together, hand-in-hand!
she is ur wife after all! cant u help?
i seriously cant accept the fact that the wife have to do everything. the husband then come home from work doing what? they rarely and even seldom-ly give the wife a massage voluntarily. the wife have to ask for the massage..itu pun just for 5mins..

so now u got what i mean?

dont get me wrong, i was just trying to make the men to understand, we are tired too.

cant u see, as soon as we reached home, we put out the foods to be cooked for dinner from the freezer. then swept the floor..while doing the laundry..and maybe folding the clothes whicle watching tv..then cook dinner, then kemas the kitchen..then get the clothes ready for tomorrow..then do some leftover works from the office..
the men, come home from work, watched tv..then makan..while watch tv and makan pun mengadap handphone..mandi pun malas..lepas tu bising2 ckp penat..suruh jemur baju kt hanger pun malas! 

so start work hand-in-hand, okay couples?

yeahhh..! we can do it! together! hand-in-hand husband and wife!


with lots of love,
Lya

Saturday, February 11, 2017

Pregnancy Cravings?

i like this topic!
9 months are the periods where you can bully people around you.
when u said u craved for something, people will try to satisfy ur craves..hahaks! 

then
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you will feel sorry and guilty afterwards

*well i think its the hormones*

like last time, the most weird thing that ive been craving for was lemang and rendang..then we have to go all the way to Bentong for it. it take us about 2hours to get to that place, and not to mention the traffic madness we faced on our way back home.
yup, i feel guilty then.

if ure reading this post my dear hubby, please know that i really really appreciate ur efforts to bring me to that lemang and rendang place :) me and #BabyA was totally happy after that..and we slept soundlessly afterwards..hahaks!

so back to the topic,
according to the elderly, ur baby will be drooling if the Mommy didnt get what she craved for during her pregnancy.
hmmm..not sure whether or not that thing is true..but according to my close cousin, her son might be drooling because she didnt get to eat her fav Nasi Lemak during her last trimester of her pregnancy.
hmm, yeah..that keeps me wondering..is it true? or just coincidence..?

i personally think that, hubbies should atleast try to find the food that ur wife is craving for. she is pregnant with ur child after all. no harm right?
this mayb sound like the wife's side of the opinion..but seriously, think about it. the wife is one who suffers the hormonal changes; morning sickness..body aches..extra fat on the butt.. and lots more..
a lil efforts from the hubby is TOTALLY melts wife's heart..and at the same time the baby will be happy too.

remember,
when ur wife is happy, ur baby is happy too
they are connected through the umbilical cord..hahaks!

till then,
xoxo

Tuesday, February 7, 2017

Diet?

 
 
Hello! Assalamualaikum!

So, yeah..if u guys are following me on my Instagram acc, you must have seen these pictures above right? And nope, i am not on diet. We'll, im pregnant and i cant eat whatever i want..kehkehkehkeh!
These are for #mrsaranghae #aflahsaidi.. He have to keep his BMI ideal so he decided to cut off RICE in his daily diet! can u imagine life without RICE???

hmm
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I cant
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hashtag 'melayu'


hahahhaha! so ive been preparing his meal boxes every morning now
grilling everything, and exploring marinate recipes..kinda fun actually..but waking up at 5am every morning is not fun when ure 7months pregnant -.-' 
u cant stand for so long..then ure kaki will bengkak..and not to mention, ur back aches..urgh!
May Allah grand me with lots of pahala when i did all those..kihkihkih! And may #mrsaranghae loves me more..hihiks!

i personally think that #mrsaranghae needs to eat healthily..no more maggie..or goreng2 thingy..just grilled, or steamed :)

semoga #mrsaranghae terus bertahan dengan godaan & cobaan NASI..ahahhaha

xoxo

Saturday, February 4, 2017

#LyaCraves

03.02.17

Assalamualaikum..

i think is the best time to bully #mrsaranghae..hihiks
i was craving for lemang after i saw lemang on tv
then i told him, and then we went to look for lemang the next day..hihiks!
it took around 2 hours to get to Bentong for Lemang To'Ki

 Welcome to Bentong uolssss!
i had 3 plates of these!!! totally worth the journey from our home in Seri Kembangan to Bentong, Pahang
 i only had little of these..the rest is eaten by #mrsaranghae since have to watch of what he is eating from now on..hihiks!
lastly, Mommy had these ais krim roti at the R&R Gombak..seriouly, #BabyA mmg tak high maintainance mcm Mommy. this rm2 ice cream can already made him dancing in there..hahaks!
all this while, Mommy can only eat B&R or Haagen Daaz..paling paling pun Magnum..
but when carrying #BabyA, i can eat all those regular ice cream..hahaks! bagus btl la anak Mommy ni kannnn..? keep it up okayyyy!

anyway, thank you so much my dearly husband..for taking me to the Lemang's place :)
so #BabyA, what's next? hahahha!


till then,
xoxo

Friday, February 3, 2017

Plus Minus 28 Weeks

Assalamualaikum!

Yay! Happy 29 weeks #BabyA!!!
Mommy and Walid was seriously happy to see you!
this time ure playing with your mouth and lips! sooooo cute of youuuuu! Mommy cant wait to see you, and kinda nervous to the 'big day'
I really dont know what to expect..and from my friend's experience, its kinda painful..hahahahha! oh yea,  good friend of mine from high school just gave birth to a cute little baby girl! 
Yay!
lepas dh azab beranak..

during the checkup, Mommy passed the urine test..and Mommy gained one more kilo this month -.-' according to the doctor, #babyA is now 1.92kg..so now Mommy seriously have to watch for what Mommy is eating..i dont want you to be fat! its gonna be hard for Mommy to push you out soon!!! So please dont let Mommy eat a lot, okay #BabyA? hahaks!

so now Mommy and Walid are gatting stuff ready for our little #BabyA..still cant find the baby cot that i wanted. i wanted something that can be attached to the bed so that we could train #BabyA to sleep on his/her bed soon. and plus, not to cramp everyone on Mommy's bed..hahaks! so Wlaid wont be sleeping on #BabyA. hihiks!

as for stroller, Mommy saw this one set SCR travel system in red! like super nice. and Mommy really wanted them for #babyA..and to train #babyA to sit on his/her seat in the car soon. Mommy not going to let u sit on Mommy yea.. #babyA have to sit on his/her own! No manja manja yea..

i think thats all for now. will update soon :)

xoxo