The Nature of Humans

hello my bloggy buddies!

so as im doing my assignments, i came across 1 question. 

"when a person sees us, whats the first thing they see?"

personality or appearance?

xde maknenye ble org tu jawab 'personality comes first" 

a person will start judging other's appearance: the way they walk, speak, dress

kenalnye belum lg, tp assumption da berlambak2 dlm kpale otak

ble a girl pkai bju branded OR bwak handbag branded, she will be labelled as "loaded"

am i right?

ble a guy to talking to beautiful girls, he will be labelled as "womanizer" 

am i right?

actually, there are lots more examples yg kte sendiri already aware of.

im not a person who didnt do that. i did but, i didnt make it obvious by telling others, what we think of that person. cukup la sekadar kte bercakap dlm hati je. i dont see dimane keperluannye untuk kite tell others what we think of others. 

another thing, people tend to SUPER LOVE to say:

 "aku tak kesah la die tu cantik/handsome, yg penting hati baik"

klu u'olls perasan, person yg ckp mcm tu kn, bf/gf die mmg dah awesome. 

thats a way of "merendah diri" i think. 

haha! manusia, manusia..

sape yg xnk ade bf/gf yg cantek? we tend to just terime jodoh kite tu seadaanye.

klu tuhan da tulis kite akan dpt somebody cantik/handsome, gumbira lah hati kn..

klu tak, redha je la kn?

am i right?

so people, tak payah nk berdrama sangat la yea.

xsemestinye org yg handsome/cantik tu hatinye baik. org yg cantik/handsome tu pulak mesti la nak somebody yg cantik/handsome jugak kn? 

demand..

konon "pipit dgn pipit, enggang dgn enggang"

p/s: well, this is just an opinion from a person who suddenly think of these things.

mencari yg sempurne tu xsalah kn? i pun nk ade bf yg handsome..cute..*mule tersengeh2 + berangan* hati baik..caring..loving..LOVE to manjekn i..*klu nk senaraikn mmg panjang lg lah entry kali ni*

and klu bercakap pasal lelaki dan perempuan, mesti kite akan nampak these signs. 

no offence yea darlings, tp nmpk sgt kaum2 perempuan yg kononnye lemah and kuat nangis ni lebih rational dr kaum lelaki yg kononnye tersangatlah kuat tuh. 

 
agak mendalam jugak la maksud signs nieh. so, fikir2kn lah yea..

well darlings, thanks for ur time reading this post.

to my best buddy in the whole universe, Julian Stan Liu : Deepest condolence to you and your family. i am very sorry to hear that news. please accept my heartfelt sympathy on the passing of your mom. may she rest in peace. and be strong, okay buddy.

x o x o

Lya